I cannot love thee as I ought

Alfred Tennyson (1809–1892) · 1850

iambic tetrameter · ABBA · 16 lines · from In Memoriam A.H.H.

I cannot love thee as I ought,For love reflects the thing beloved;My words are only words, and movedUpon the topmost froth of thought.

‘Yet blame not thou thy plaintive song,’The Spirit of true love replied;‘Thou canst not move me from thy side,Nor human frailty do me wrong.

‘What keeps a spirit wholly trueTo that ideal which he bears?What record? not the sinless yearsThat breathed beneath the Syrian blue;

‘So fret not, like an idle girl,That life is dash’d with flecks of sin.Abide: thy wealth is gathered in,When Time hath sunder’d shell from pearl.’

Words in this poem

ought p. p.
Was or were under obligation to pay; owed. [Orig. the preterit of the verb to owe. OE. oughte, aughte, ahte, AS. ahte. sq. root110. See Owe.]
frailty n.
The condition quality of being frail, physically, mentally, or morally, frailness; infirmity; weakness of resolution; liableness to be deceived or seduced. [OE. frelete, freilte, OF. fraileté, fr. L. fragilitas. See Frail, a., and cf. Fragility.]
sinless a.
Free from sin. Piers Plowman.
wealth n.
Weal; welfare; prosperity; good. [OE. welthe, from wele; cf. D. weelde luxury. See Weal prosperity.]

Definitions and etymologies from Webster's Unabridged Dictionary, 1913.

About this text

I cannot love thee as I ought is in the public domain. This text is taken from In memoriam, Project Gutenberg ebook #70950; the transcription's header, footer and licence were removed and nothing else was changed. You may copy, print and reuse it freely.

Cite as: Alfred Tennyson, I cannot love thee as I ought, in In Memoriam A.H.H. (1850), text of Project Gutenberg ebook #70950, Laurel, https://laurelpoetry.com/poem/tennyson-in-memoriam/section-51.html, id L18411.

Form and metre

I cannot love thee as I ought is 16 lines in 4 stanzas of 4 lines each. Every stanza rhymes ABBA. The metre is iambic tetrameter, measured from the stress the words themselves fix (confidence 93%). 100% of its stressed syllables fall where the metre puts the beat. The lines average 7.9 syllables. 19% of the lines run on without a stop at the line end.

See other poems in iambic tetrameter.

Measured by Laurel's pipeline, not copied from a handbook: how stress and metre are counted, how rhyme is lettered, how a drifted rhyme is found. Where the dictionary cannot confirm a rhyme the letter is withheld, not guessed.

Rhyme words, stanza by stanza

The word that ends each line, lettered by the rhyme it makes; a dash is a line whose rhyme the dictionary could not confirm.

  1. 1 ABBA oughtA · belovedB · movedB · thoughtA
  2. 2 ABBA songA · repliedB · sideB · wrongA
  3. 3 ABBA trueA · bearsB · yearsB · blueA
  4. 4 ABBA girlA · sinB · inB · pearlA
Scansion, line by line

Each line with its syllable count and the stresses the words themselves fix: / stressed, ˘ unstressed, · a syllable the word leaves free and the metre decides. Read against iambic tetrameter. How this is done.

LineSyl.Stress
I cannot love thee as I ought,8·/˘·····
For love reflects the thing beloved;8··˘/··˘/
My words are only words, and moved8···/˘···
Upon the topmost froth of thought.8···/˘···
‘Yet blame not thou thy plaintive song,’8·····/˘·
The Spirit of true love replied;8·/˘···˘/
‘Thou canst not move me from thy side,8········
Nor human frailty do me wrong.8·/˘/˘···
‘What keeps a spirit wholly true8···/˘/˘·
To that ideal which he bears?7··˘/···
What record? not the sinless years8·/˘··/˘·
That breathed beneath the Syrian blue;8·····/˘·
‘So fret not, like an idle girl,8·····/˘·
That life is dash’d with flecks of sin.8········
Abide: thy wealth is gathered in,8˘/···/˘·
When Time hath sunder’d shell from pearl.’8········

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