164. To a Gentlewoman Objecting to Him His Gray Hairs

Robert Herrick (1591–1674) · 1648

iambic tetrameter · octosyllabic couplets · 15 lines · from Hesperides

Am I despised because you say,And I dare swear, that I am gray?Know, lady, you have but your day:And time will come when you shall wearSuch frost and snow upon your hair;And when (though long, it comes to pass)You question with your looking-glass;And in that sincere crystal seek,But find no rose-bud in your cheek:Nor any bed to give the showWhere such a rare carnation grew.Ah! then too late, close in your chamber keeping,It will be toldThat you are old,By those true tears y'are weeping.

Words in this poem

shall v. i.
To owe; to be under obligation for. [OE. shal, schal, imp. sholde, scholde, AS. scal, sceal, I am obliged, imp. scolde, sceolde, inf. sculan; akin to OS. skulan, pres. skal, imp. skolda, D. zullen,]
carnation n.
The natural color of flesh; rosy pink. [F. carnation the flesh tints in a painting, It carnagione, fr. L. carnatio fleshiness, fr. caro, carnis, flesh. See Carnal.]

Definitions and etymologies from Webster's Unabridged Dictionary, 1913.

About this text

164. To a Gentlewoman Objecting to Him His Gray Hairs is in the public domain. This text is taken from The Hesperides & Noble Numbers: Vol. 1 and 2, Project Gutenberg ebook #22421; the transcription's header, footer and licence were removed and nothing else was changed. You may copy, print and reuse it freely.

Cite as: Robert Herrick, 164. To a Gentlewoman Objecting to Him His Gray Hairs, in Hesperides (1648), text of Project Gutenberg ebook #22421, Laurel, https://laurelpoetry.com/poem/herrick-hesperides/164-to-a-gentlewoman-objecting-to-him-his-gray-hairs.html, id L05216.

Form and metre

164. To a Gentlewoman Objecting to Him His Gray Hairs is 15 lines in a single stanza. It is in rhyming couplets, 53% of the lines: octosyllabic couplets. The metre is iambic tetrameter, measured from the stress the words themselves fix (confidence 86%). 97% of its stressed syllables fall where the metre puts the beat. The lines average 7.7 syllables. 2 lines end on an unstressed syllable, a feminine ending. 20% of the lines run on without a stop at the line end.

See other poems in octosyllabic couplets, other poems in iambic tetrameter.

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Rhyme words, stanza by stanza

The word that ends each line, lettered by the rhyme it makes; a dash is a line whose rhyme the dictionary could not confirm.

  1. 1 AAABBCCDD--EFFE sayA · grayA · dayA · wearB · hairB · passC · glassC · seekD · cheekD · show · grew · keepingE · toldF · oldF · weepingE
Scansion, line by line

Each line with its syllable count and the stresses the words themselves fix: / stressed, ˘ unstressed, · a syllable the word leaves free and the metre decides. Read against iambic tetrameter. How this is done.

LineSyl.Stress
Am I despised because you say,9··˘/˘····
And I dare swear, that I am gray?8········
Know, lady, you have but your day:8·/˘·····
And time will come when you shall wear8········
Such frost and snow upon your hair;8········
And when (though long, it comes to pass)8········
You question with your looking-glass;8·/˘··/˘·
And in that sincere crystal seek,8···˘//˘·
But find no rose-bud in your cheek:8········
Nor any bed to give the show8·/˘·····
Where such a rare carnation grew.8····˘/˘·
Ah! then too late, close in your chamber keeping,11·······/˘/˘
It will be told4····
That you are old,4····
By those true tears y'are weeping.7·····/˘

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