He Appeases Her by Humility, and Exhorts a Friend to Do Likewise

Petrarch (1304–1374), translated by various hands · 1859

iambic pentameter · Italian sonnet · 14 lines · from The Sonnets, Triumphs and Other Poems

When my sweet foe, so haughty oft and high,Moved my brief ire no more my sight can thole,One comfort is vouchsafed me lest I die,Through whose sole strength survives my harass'd soul;Where'er her eyes--all light which would denyTo my sad life--in scorn or anger roll,Mine with such true humility reply,Soon their meek glances all her rage control,Were it not so, methinks I less could brookTo gaze on hers than on Medusa's mien,Which turn'd to marble all who met her look.My friend, act thus with thine, for closed I weenAll other aid, and nothing flight availsAgainst the wings on which our master sails.

Words in this poem

haughty a.
High; lofty; bold. [OE. hautein, F. hautain, fr. haut high, OF. also halt, fr. L. altus. See Altitude.]
thole v. t.
To bear; to endure; to undergo. Gower. [OE. þolen, þolien, AS. þolian; akin to OS. tholon, OHG. dolen, G. geduld patience, dulden to endure, Icel. þola, Sw. tåla, Dan. taale, Goth. þulan, L. tolerate,]
methinks v.
It seems to me; I think. See Me. [AS. þyncan to seem, me þynceedh, me þuhte, OE. me thinketh, me thoughte; akin to G. dünken to seem, denken to think, and E. think. See Me, and Think.]
ween v. i.
To think; to imagine; to fancy. [OE. wenen, AS. w, fr. w hope, expectation, opinion; akin to D. waan, OFries. w, OS. & OHG. wan, G. wahn delusion, Icel. van hope, expectation, Goth. w, and D. w]

Definitions and etymologies from Webster's Unabridged Dictionary, 1913.

About this text

He Appeases Her by Humility, and Exhorts a Friend to Do Likewise is in the public domain. This text is taken from The Sonnets, Triumphs and Other Poems, Project Gutenberg ebook #17650, the various hands translation; the transcription's header, footer and licence were removed and nothing else was changed. You may copy, print and reuse it freely.

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Form and metre

He Appeases Her by Humility, and Exhorts a Friend to Do Likewise is 14 lines in a single stanza. It rhymes ABBAABBACDCDCD, the pattern of the Italian sonnet. The metre is iambic pentameter, measured from the stress the words themselves fix (confidence 86%). 91% of its stressed syllables fall where the metre puts the beat. The lines average 10.1 syllables. 29% of the lines run on without a stop at the line end.

See other Italian sonnets, other poems in iambic pentameter.

Measured by Laurel's pipeline, not copied from a handbook: how stress and metre are counted, how rhyme is lettered, how a drifted rhyme is found. Where the dictionary cannot confirm a rhyme the letter is withheld, not guessed.

Rhyme words, stanza by stanza

The word that ends each line, lettered by the rhyme it makes; a dash is a line whose rhyme the dictionary could not confirm.

  1. 1 ABBAABBACDCDCD highA · tholeB · dieB · soulA · denyA · rollB · replyB · controlA · brookC · mienD · lookC · weenD · availsC · sailsD
Scansion, line by line

Each line with its syllable count and the stresses the words themselves fix: / stressed, ˘ unstressed, · a syllable the word leaves free and the metre decides. Read against iambic pentameter. How this is done.

LineSyl.Stress
When my sweet foe, so haughty oft and high,10·····/˘···
Moved my brief ire no more my sight can thole,10··········
One comfort is vouchsafed me lest I die,10·/˘·······
Through whose sole strength survives my harass'd soul;10····˘/·˘/·
Where'er her eyes--all light which would deny11˘˘/······˘/
To my sad life--in scorn or anger roll,10·······/˘·
Mine with such true humility reply,10····˘/˘˘˘/
Soon their meek glances all her rage control,10···/˘···˘/
Were it not so, methinks I less could brook10····˘/····
To gaze on hers than on Medusa's mien,10······˘/˘·
Which turn'd to marble all who met her look.10···/˘·····
My friend, act thus with thine, for closed I ween10··········
All other aid, and nothing flight avails10·/˘··/˘·˘/
Against the wings on which our master sails.10······//˘·

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