Ballade at Thirty-Five

Dorothy Parker (1893–1967) · 1926

dactylic trimeter · 28 lines · from Enough Rope

This, no song of an ingénue,This, no ballad of innocence;This, the rhyme of a lady whoFollowed ever her natural bents.This, a solo of sapience,This, a chantey of sophistry,This, the sum of experiments,--I loved them until they loved me.

Decked in garments of sable hue,Daubed with ashes of myriad Lents,Wearing shower bouquets of rue,Walk I ever in penitence.Oft I roam, as my heart repents,Through God's acre of memory,Marking stones, in my reverence,"I loved them until they loved me."

Pictures pass me in long review,--Marching columns of dead events.I was tender, and, often, true;Ever a prey to coincidence.Always knew I the consequence;Always saw what the end would be.We're as Nature has made us--henceI loved them until they loved me.

Princes, never I'd give offense,Won't you think of me tenderly?Here's my strength and my weakness, gents,--I loved them until they loved me.

Words in this poem

sapience n.
The quality of being sapient; wisdom; sageness; knowledge. [L. sapientia: cf. F. sapience. See Sapient..]
chantey n.
A sailor's song.
sophistry n.
The art or process of reasoning; logic. [OE. sophistrie, OF. sophisterie.]
sable n.
A carnivorous animal of the Weasel family (Mustela zibellina) native of the northern latitudes of Europe, Asia, and America, -- noted for its fine, soft, and valuable fur. [OF. sable, F. zibeline sable (in sense 4), LL. sabellum; cf. D. sabel, Dan. sabel, zobel, Sw. sabel, sobel, G. zobel; all fr. Russ. sóbole.]
myriad n.
The number of ten thousand; ten thousand persons or things. [Gr. myriade.]
acre n.
Any field of arable or pasture land. [OE. aker, AS. æcer; akin to OS. accar, OHG. achar, Ger. acker, Icel. akr, Sw. åker, Dan. ager, Goth. akrs, L. ager, Gr. ajra. *2, 206.]
tenderly adv.
In a tender manner; with tenderness; mildly; gently; softly; in a manner not to injure or give pain; with pity or affection; kindly.

Definitions and etymologies from Webster's Unabridged Dictionary, 1913.

About this text

Ballade at Thirty-Five is in the public domain. This text is taken from Enough Rope: Poems, Project Gutenberg ebook #68353; the transcription's header, footer and licence were removed and nothing else was changed. You may copy, print and reuse it freely.

Cite as: Dorothy Parker, Ballade at Thirty-Five, in Enough Rope (1926), text of Project Gutenberg ebook #68353, Laurel, https://laurelpoetry.com/poem/parker-enough-rope/ballade-at-thirty-five.html, id L27373.

Form and metre

Ballade at Thirty-Five is 28 lines in 4 stanzas. The metre is dactylic trimeter, measured from the stress the words themselves fix (confidence 83%).

See other poems in dactylic trimeter.

Measured by Laurel's pipeline, not copied from a handbook: how stress and metre are counted, how rhyme is lettered, how a drifted rhyme is found. Where the dictionary cannot confirm a rhyme the letter is withheld, not guessed.

Rhyme words, stanza by stanza

The word that ends each line, lettered by the rhyme it makes; a dash is a line whose rhyme the dictionary could not confirm.

  1. 1 A-A----- ingénueA · innocence · whoA · bents · sapience · sophistry · experiments · me
  2. 2 ABACB-C- hueA · lentsB · rueA · penitenceC · repentsB · memory · reverenceC · me
  3. 3 A-ABBCBC reviewA · events · trueA · coincidenceB · consequenceB · beC · henceB · meC
Scansion, line by line

Each line with its syllable count and the stresses the words themselves fix: / stressed, ˘ unstressed, · a syllable the word leaves free and the metre decides. Read against dactylic trimeter. How this is done.

LineSyl.Stress
This, no song of an ingénue,7·······
This, no ballad of innocence;8··/˘·/˘˘
This, the rhyme of a lady who8·····/˘·
Followed ever her natural bents.8/˘/·/˘˘·
This, a solo of sapience,8··/··/˘˘
This, a chantey of sophistry,8··/˘·/˘˘
This, the sum of experiments,--8····˘/˘˘
I loved them until they loved me.8········
Decked in garments of sable hue,8··/˘·/˘·
Daubed with ashes of myriad Lents,8··/˘·/˘·
Wearing shower bouquets of rue,8/˘/˘˘/··
Walk I ever in penitence.8··/˘·/˘˘
Oft I roam, as my heart repents,8······˘/
Through God's acre of memory,8··/˘·/˘˘
Marking stones, in my reverence,8/˘···/˘˘
"I loved them until they loved me."8········
Pictures pass me in long review,--8/˘·····/
Marching columns of dead events.8/˘/˘··˘/
I was tender, and, often, true;8··/˘·/˘·
Ever a prey to coincidence.9/˘···˘/˘˘
Always knew I the consequence;8/˘···/˘˘
Always saw what the end would be.8/·······
We're as Nature has made us--hence8··/˘····
I loved them until they loved me.8········
Princes, never I'd give offense,8/˘/˘··˘/
Won't you think of me tenderly?8·····/˘˘
Here's my strength and my weakness, gents,--8·····/˘·
I loved them until they loved me.8········

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