The To-Be-Forgotten

Thomas Hardy (1840–1928) · 1901

iambic trimeter · AABB · 32 lines · from Poems of the Past and the Present

I HEARD a small sad sound,And stood awhile amid the tombs around:“Wherefore, old friends,” said I, “are ye distrest,Now, screened from life’s unrest?”

—“O not at being here;But that our future second death is drear;When, with the living, memory of us numbs,And blank oblivion comes!

“Those who our grandsires beLie here embraced by deeper death than we;Nor shape nor thought of theirs canst thou descryWith keenest backward eye.

“They bide as quite forgot;They are as men who have existed not;Theirs is a loss past loss of fitful breath;It is the second death.

“We here, as yet, each dayAre blest with dear recall; as yet, alwayIn some soul hold a loved continuanceOf shape and voice and glance.

“But what has been will be—First memory, then oblivion’s turbid sea;Like men foregone, shall we merge into thoseWhose story no one knows.

“For which of us could hopeTo show in life that world-awakening scopeGranted the few whose memory none lets die,But all men magnify?

“We were but Fortune’s sport;Things true, things lovely, things of good reportWe neither shunned nor sought . . . We see our bourne,And seeing it we mourn.”

Words in this poem

awhile adv.
For a while; for some time; for a short time. [Adj. a + while time, interval.]
amid prep.
In the midst or middle of; surrounded or encompassed by; among. [OE. amidde, amiddes, on midden, AS. on middan, in the middle, fr. midde the middle. The s is an adverbial ending, originally marking the genitive; the t is a la]
wherefore adv.
For which reason; so; -- used relatively. [Where + for.]
unrest n.
Want of rest or repose; unquietness; sleeplessness; uneasiness; disquietude.
drear n.
Sadness; dismalness.
oblivion n.
The act of forgetting, or the state of being forgotten; cessation of remembrance; forgetfulness. [L. oblivio, akin to oblivisci to forget: cf. OF. oblivion.]
descry
, Discovery or view, as of an army seen at a distance.
bide v. i.
To dwell; to inhabit; to abide; to stay. [OE. biden, AS. bidan; akin to OHG. bitan, Goth. beidan, Icel. bi; perh. orig., to wait with trust, and akin to bid. See Bid, v. t., and cf. Abide.]
fitful a.
Full of fits; irregularly variable; impulsive and unstable. [From 7th Fit.]
shall v. i.
To owe; to be under obligation for. [OE. shal, schal, imp. sholde, scholde, AS. scal, sceal, I am obliged, imp. scolde, sceolde, inf. sculan; akin to OS. skulan, pres. skal, imp. skolda, D. zullen,]
merge v. t.
To cause to be swallowed up; to immerse; to sink; to absorb. [L. mergere, mersum. Cf. Emerge, Immerse, Marrow.]
bourne n.
A stream or rivulet; a burn. [OE. burne, borne, AS. burna; akin to OS. brunno spring, G. born, brunnen, OHG. prunno, Goth. brunna, Icel. brunnr, and perh. to Gr. burn, v., because the source]

Definitions and etymologies from Webster's Unabridged Dictionary, 1913.

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The To-Be-Forgotten is in the public domain. This text is taken from Poems of the Past and the Present, Project Gutenberg ebook #3168; the transcription's header, footer and licence were removed and nothing else was changed. You may copy, print and reuse it freely.

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Form and metre

The To-Be-Forgotten is 32 lines in 8 stanzas of 4 lines each. The rhyme scheme is AABB, complete in 7 of its 8 stanzas. The metre is iambic trimeter, measured from the stress the words themselves fix (confidence 82%). 93% of its stressed syllables fall where the metre puts the beat. The lines average 8.1 syllables. 2 lines end on an unstressed syllable, a feminine ending. 28% of the lines run on without a stop at the line end.

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Measured by Laurel's pipeline, not copied from a handbook: how stress and metre are counted, how rhyme is lettered, how a drifted rhyme is found. Where the dictionary cannot confirm a rhyme the letter is withheld, not guessed.

Rhyme words, stanza by stanza

The word that ends each line, lettered by the rhyme it makes; a dash is a line whose rhyme the dictionary could not confirm.

  1. 1 AABB soundA · aroundA · distrestB · unrestB
  2. 2 AABB hereA · drearA · numbsB · comesB
  3. 3 AABB beA · weA · descryB · eyeB
  4. 4 AABB forgotA · notA · breathB · deathB
  5. 5 --AA day · alway · continuanceA · glanceA
  6. 6 AABB beA · seaA · thoseB · knowsB
  7. 7 AABB hopeA · scopeA · dieB · magnifyB
  8. 8 AABB sportA · reportA · bourneB · mournB
Scansion, line by line

Each line with its syllable count and the stresses the words themselves fix: / stressed, ˘ unstressed, · a syllable the word leaves free and the metre decides. Read against iambic trimeter. How this is done.

LineSyl.Stress
I HEARD a small sad sound,6······
And stood awhile amid the tombs around:10··˘/˘/····
“Wherefore, old friends,” said I, “are ye distrest,10/˘········
Now, screened from life’s unrest?”6····˘/
—“O not at being here;6···/˘·
But that our future second death is drear;10··//˘/˘···
When, with the living, memory of us numbs,10···/˘/˘···
And blank oblivion comes!7··˘/˘˘·
“Those who our grandsires be7··/˘···
Lie here embraced by deeper death than we;10··˘/·/˘···
Nor shape nor thought of theirs canst thou descry10········˘/
With keenest backward eye.6·/˘/˘·
“They bide as quite forgot;6····˘/
They are as men who have existed not;10······˘/˘·
Theirs is a loss past loss of fitful breath;10·······/˘·
It is the second death.6···/˘·
“We here, as yet, each day6······
Are blest with dear recall; as yet, alway10····/···/˘
In some soul hold a loved continuance9······˘/˘
Of shape and voice and glance.6······
“But what has been will be—6······
First memory, then oblivion’s turbid sea;10·/˘·˘/˘/˘·
Like men foregone, shall we merge into those10··//······
Whose story no one knows.6·/˘···
“For which of us could hope6······
To show in life that world-awakening scope10······˘/˘·
Granted the few whose memory none lets die,10/˘···/˘···
But all men magnify?6···/˘·
“We were but Fortune’s sport;6···/˘·
Things true, things lovely, things of good report10···/˘···˘/
We neither shunned nor sought . . . We see our bourne,10·/˘·····/·
And seeing it we mourn.”6·/˘···

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